Friday, June 19, 2015

From: Peter Nyholm [mailto:peter.nyholm@myldsmail.net] Sent: Monday, June 8, 2015 10:45 AM
 
This week went by super fast and a lot of pretty cool stuff happened. First off, Sister Miller called you haha. I know her as Sister Cyborg though. And she always calls me Cyclops or Nyborg. She is so stinkin' awesome. Most of the missionaries get scared of her because when you first introduce yourself she says "Get away from me. You're annoying. I don't like missionaries". But then if you're persistent then you find out that she is really jsut a big teddy bear. If Sister Cyborg reads this then I'll just have to let her know that I won't share my secret with other missionaries so that they won't bother her :) But it was a pretty cool spiritual moment that she recounted huh?
 
#1 Sam is the daughter and Donna is the Mom. Jim is the Dad and Jason is the son. Jason was not baptized this last Saturday but the plan is that he will be baptized this coming Saturday. #2 Yes we got our "devices”. They are a pain. It would've been better if they just waited until I left to give them out. Maybe I'll learn differently, but as for now it just seems like another good distraction for most missionaries. There are a select few who I think will actually use them wisely and they will be very effective. I'm thinking I'll just put mine in a drawer and forget about it. #3 The Luau went SUPER well. We had about 150 people there and more than half were non-members. The hogs turned out great and tasted amazing. We didn't get to learn the Haka but they did teach us a different dance if we were willing to embarrass ourselves in front of the whole group, so naturally all us missionaries went up and learned haha. There are no Polynesians in Trenton at all. The dancers all came up from Independence.
 
I've never been up on Brushy Peak. I want to do a bunch of hikes when I get back though. I miss going hiking now. I hated it before. So I guess we'll have to do Brushy Peak and Del Valle when I get back.
 
For those pictures, I just wanted them digitally :)
 
Tell Dad that if he procrastinates the table for long enough that I would love to help him with it. Kaitlin isn't happy about me saying that because now maybe she'll have to wait a few more months, but since I've been out here I've really wanted to learn a lot more about wood working and metal working and auto-mechanics. We get to provide service doing a lot of that stuff and now I have kind of a new found interest in it all.
 
We had a mini-missionary (Braden Moser 16) with us for Friday through Sunday. He's an awesome kid and we had a lot of fun with him. He's a heck of a lot more prepared for a mission than I ever was haha. But yeah, that was a pretty good experience.
 
Something that stuck out to me from the scriptures this week. Mormon 8:23 says "Search the prophecies of Isaiah". Then Christ commands us the same thing. And so does Nephi. So now I have to study Isaiah haha. It;s crazy though if you think about it because Isaiah talks 100% about four main topics which are 1) Christ's Mortal Ministry; 2) Christ's Second Coming; 3) The Gathering of the Tribes of Israel; and 4) The Restoration, all of which are extremely important to us. So here goes my journey on studying Isaiah :)
 
That's it for the week. I would write more but this place is too loud and I can't concentrate. So I guess I'll save up some details for next week. Love You!
 
     -Elder Nyholm
Sent: Thursday, June 18, 2015 4:53 PM
 
Well to start off with, Jason did get baptized this Saturday so we are super excited for him. We had a great baptismal service and everything went according to plan and there were a lot of people there to support Jason. He was way excited to get baptized and so were we and his family. So Congratulations Jason :)
 
Last week were taken to China 1 buffet two days in a row. It was super delicious both times :) But I guess I didn't eat enough because I weighed myself a few days ago and I'm starting to lose weight again. I guess I need to pack in the food a little harder. Or exercise more. Yeah that doesn't sound like a good plan.
 
This Saturday we also went to the Baptist church to watch the Grand River Valley Choir and Orchestra perform. It was a pretty good little concert. They played 3 or 4 Mac Wilberg arrangements and we got to talk to a lot of people from the community while we were there. Also we had quite a few members of our branch perform with the choir/orchestra.
 
Today we went to the temple with Brother and Sister Cyborg (Miller). We had a super great time and had a way good experience. Then on the way home the Cyborgs brought us shopping and brought us to lunch at a little shop called Longboards. It was a really good restaurant. I'd definitely recommend it.
 
This week I've been studying Isaiah a lot and Isaiah 30:19-21 really stuck out to me. They say "...thou shalt weep no more: he will be very gracious unto thee at the voice of thy cry; when he shall hear it, he will answer thee. And though the Lord give you the bread of adversity, and the water of affliction, yet shall not thy teachers be removed into a corner any more, but thine eyes shall see thy teachers: And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left." I just thought that was such a cool scripture because it helped me to realize that even though times might get tough for us, the Lord will still hear and answer our prayers. Even through the midst of every trial we have we can still hear the Holy Ghost guiding us on the correct path through this life. God cares about us. He won't leave us out in the cold. He's here with us, cheering us on and giving us guidance when we ask for it. So don't ever question whether He cares about you or whether he is guiding you in your life. He is.
 
That's pretty much it for the week. Make it a great week. I Love You!
 
     -Elder Nyholm
 



 
 

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Missionary Talk 5.31.2015


Brothers and Sisters, Missionary Work is defined by Jesus Christ in Matthew 28:19-20 when he declares unto his apostles Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you”. Therefore, missionary work, simply put, is helping others to learn and follow the teachings of Jesus Christ. This missionary work can be carried out in many different ways, including setting a Christ-like example to those around you.


Today I wish to speak on how each of us can carry out missionary work among the youth of the church. As quoted by Elder Holland “There is no battle more crucial and evident “than that being waged for the minds and morals, the personal purity of the young.” Satan knows that the youth are the future of this Church, that they are our future Bishops, Teachers, Quorum and Class Presidents, that they are our Future Missionaries. But in order for us to win this battle for the purity of Youth we must follow the instructions stated in Mosiah 18:9 to “stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that [we] may be in”. By doing so, we support and encourage the youth of our generation to prepare to serve as member and full-time missionaries; We help those who will come after us to flood the Earth with The Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ and the wonderful blessings that it has to offer us.

 

Parents obviously have a key role in preparing their children to be our future missionaries. Harold B Lee said “The most important of the Lord’s work that you will ever do will be the work you do within the walls of your own home.” The example that parents set for their children therefore is the most influential example that children will have in their lives. It is this example that will set the course that the youth of this church are to follow, for better or for worse. No wonder the role that parents play is referenced so periodically in the Scriptures.

 

The Family: A Proclamation to the world states “Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another [and to] observe the commandments of God.” By doing so, parents perform Missionary Work among their own children and prepare their children to perform missionary work among those of the world.

 

*** “Young men are sowers. Young women are sowers. Who trains and guides these sowers? Who points out to them which is the right grain to place in the sower’s bag? Who teaches them how to place the sower’s bag on their shoulders? Who teaches the young sower going out into the field for the first time whether the season is right, or how far to scatter the seed? Hopefully, a caring father, a loving mother, teachers and quorums, or other loved ones will guide their footsteps.” David B Haight

 

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So how do parents rear their children in love and righteousness? To begin with, parents must be unified in the teaching of their children. This unity can be developed by “companionship study” of the scriptures, by “companionship prayer”, and as we work as a companionship to achieve common goals. Preach My Gospel pg 178 says “The Lord has commanded, “Ye shall go forth in the power of my Spirit, preaching my gospel, two by two” (D&C 42:6). Your teaching will be more powerful... if you and your companion work together in unity... Support your companion by offering a second witness to the truths of which he or she has testified. Follow your impressions when the Spirit prompts you to say something.” As children see the unity that has been developed among their parents, they will have a greater desire to follow the counsel and direction that their parents have given them. They will see that their parents are guided by the Holy Ghost and that the counsel that they receive from each individual parent will not vary from the counsel that they would receive from their other parents or from that of their Heavenly Father.

 

Elder Holland, in talking about those who are being taught by missionaries said “These [children] are not lifeless objects... They are children of God, our brothers and sisters, and they need what we have. Be genuine. Reach out sincerely. Ask these [children] what matters most to them. What do they cherish, and what do they hold dear? And then listen. If the setting is right you might ask what their fears are, what they yearn for, or what they feel is missing in their lives. I promise you that something in what they say will always highlight a truth of the gospel about which you can bear testimony and about which you can then offer more.” Brothers and Sisters, as you show sincere concern for your children they will see that you love them, that you want what is in their best interest, and that you will always be there to help and guide them on the path through life. You will have more opportunities to teach them to follow the commandments of God and the Gospel of Jesus Christ as a whole. Your children will be prepared to preach the Gospel because they will have seen and felt the love of Christ in their lives and desire to share that same love with those around them.

 

*** “The interpersonal relationships between missionaries are among the choicest blessings we receive as the result of missionary service. The friendships and the positive influence of one missionary upon the other can be eternal.” James M Dunn

 

 

 

Next, Parents are to provide for the physical and spiritual needs of their children. I am reminded of the story of Alma the Younger. His father obviously carried out this act of providing for the needs of his son when it is stated that he and his people “did walk uprightly before God, imparting to one another both temporally and spiritually according to their needs and their wants.” However, for the time being, Alma the Younger did not pay heed or appreciate the counsel of his Father, for he went around destroying the Church of God and leading many souls unto destruction. In this act he, and his friends, were visited by an Angel. Later, while recounting this experience, Alma the Younger states the the Angel said unto him the Lord hath heard the prayers of his people, and also the prayers of his servant, Alma, who is thy father; for he has prayed with much faith concerning thee that thou mightest be brought to the knowledge of the truth; therefore, for this purpose have I come to convince thee of the power and authority of God, that the prayers of his servants might be answered according to their faith.” We all know the story of Alma the Younger. We know that he repented of his ways, that he began to follow the counsel of his Father. But most important of all Alma began from this time forward to teach the people, and those who were with Alma at the time the angel appeared unto them, traveling round about through all the land, publishing to all the people the things which they had heard and seen, and preaching the word of God... And thus they were instruments in the hands of God in bringing many to the knowledge of the truth, yea, to the knowledge of their Redeemer.” (Mosiah 18:29 ; 27:14,32,36) This is the result of a loving parent providing proper and complete spiritual nourishment for their child. The simple prayer of a loving father was exactly what Alma the Younger needed in order to change the course of his life and give selfless missionary service for the remainder of his time on this Earth. Each of us has the opportunity of providing this same outcome for our children as we carry out daily family prayer, daily family scripture study, weekly family home evenings, and other family activities.

 

A Similar story of lifelong missionary service as a result of proper spiritual nourishment comes from the story of Enos who said “Behold, it came to pass that I, Enos, knowing my father that he was a just man—for he taught me in his language, and also in the nurture and admonition of the Lord—and blessed be the name of my God for it... and the words which I had often heard my father speak concerning eternal life, and the joy of the saints, sunk deep into my heart.” Here we can see that the Father of Enos had spent much time bringing him up in the ways of the Savior, teaching him his duties and responsibilities as a Priesthood holder. We see that Enos was conscious of the time and effort that his Father had dedicated to his spiritual nourishment. And as a result, after his conversion, Enos says for himself, I, Enos, went about among the people of Nephi, prophesying of things to come, and testifying of the things which I had heard and seen... Having been wrought upon by the power of God that I must preach and prophesy unto this people, and declare the word according to the truth which is in Christ. And I have declared it in all my days, and have rejoiced in it above that of the world.” (Enos verses 1,3,19,26) Brothers and Sisters, the spiritual nourishment you provide for your children will extend far beyond the lives of your children. It will extend to those who your children encounter as they place their lives in the service of their God. The missionary service you provide now, to your children, through proper care and nourishment, will effect countless generations to come.

 

I remember my Mom sending me a letter a few months ago. She told me that my Dad had given her, as a Mother's Day present, a book titled “The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands”. Although she wasn't particularly thrilled with the gift my Dad had given her, (and actually wanted to throw it out) she found, several years later, that this book was actually very beneficial to her progress as a wife and mother. We similarly have a book that can help us to become better missionaries, Mothers and Fathers, Sons and Daughters. It could be titled “The Proper Care and Nourishment of Children, but in reality is called “The Book of Mormon”. Do not waste this precious resource that you have been given as a gift from your Heavenly Father. It will provide the guidance that you need in order to Provide for the physical and spiritual needs of your children. Read it Daily, as individuals and as families. This alone will greatly increase your ability as a spiritual and physical provider for your family.

 

*** Regardless of needs or problems, all people are best helped as they accept and live the gospel. You will be able to adjust your teaching as you listen to the promptings of the Spirit... Make sure that you ask enough questions and listen carefully to their answers so you have a firm understanding of how quickly and how well the investigator is learning and applying the doctrines you are presenting... Trust in the promise that the Spirit will give you “in the very hour, yea, in the very moment, what ye shall say” -Preach My Gospel Pg 177

 

*** Elder Russell Nelson told me once that one of the first rules of medical inquiry is “Ask the patient where it hurts. The patient,” he said, “will be your best guide to a correct diagnosis and eventual remedy.” If we listen with love, we won’t need to wonder what to say. It will be given to us—by the Spirit and by our friends. -Elder Holland

 

 

It is the Duty of Parents to teach their children to Love, Serve and Keep the Commandments. The Proclamation to the World: The Family, says “Successful marriages and families [and missionaries] are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities.” (Proclamation to the World) These principles were taught to me very well by my own parents. One example of this that comes to mind is the service that my Mother asked me to provide to a neighbor named Denise Termini. Here is some background on her situation.... Lives alone....Cancer..... Shoulders...... I remember the countless opportunities that I had to give her rides to Church each Sunday (and when she could not attend church, to bring her the Sacrament), an opportunity that she had not had the privilege of having for most of her later years due to medical issues. She has since passed on, but has left a lasting sense of love, compassion, and service in my heart, which is something that I greatly wish to carry on to my future children. I am grateful for the opportunity and encouragement that my Mother gave me to provide service for Denise and I know that those experiences have been a blessing to me during my missionary service. They are experiences that I can look back on and say “My service means something to someone. No effort is wasted. Don't give up now, even when doors are slammed in your face, or you are run off a porch, or you are threatened for the service you wish to provide. Your hard work, the love you share and the desire you have to share it, your service, means something to someone”. I know for myself that this is the result of a loving father and mother who taught me to Love, serve, and keep the commandments of God.

 

Brothers and Sisters, I know that as you similarly teach your children the standards that have been put forth by our Heavenly Father, that your children will “Wax strong in the knowledge of the truth... [become men and women] of a sound understanding [who have] searched the scriptures diligently, that they might know the word of God” and become as the Sons of Mosiah who had given themselves to much prayer, and fasting; therefore they had the spirit of prophecy, and the spirit of revelation, and when they taught, they taught with power and authority of God.” (Mosiah 17: 2-3)

 

 

I know that as we Rear children in love and righteousness, provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and teach them to love, serve, and keep the commandments, that they will become successful missionaries in times to come. As you continue to teach them “Their faith, happiness and expression will be sufficient to awaken the interest” (Elder Holland) of those whom they will teach. As Elder Holland said “We can all do more to transmit this tradition [of missionary service] to those who come after us”, for, As Joseph Smith stated, “After all has been said, our most important duty is to Preach the Gospel” (Joseph Smith).

 

I want to leave you with one last quote from Preach My Gospel from the section “No Effort is Wasted”. When people choose not to investigate the restored gospel, your work is not wasted. Your consistent efforts in serving and teaching as many people as you can is one way God prepares His children to eventually receive His servants. He often reaches out to His children through you. Even when people do not accept the opportunity to learn the gospel, your service and words are evidence of God’s love for them and may plant seeds that future missionaries and members of the Church will harvest.

When people do not accept the gospel, do not be discouraged. You have raised a warning voice. You have given them a clear choice. Disciples of Christ feel sorrow when people choose not to repent, but they maintain a vision of who they are and what they are doing. They continue to diligently move forward.”

Testimony =)

 
Sent: Monday, June 1, 2015 6:52 AM 
 
This week went pretty swell. We had a baptism on Saturday for Sam and Donna. It was a super great baptismal service and the spirit was there super strong. Jason (the son) will get baptized on June 13th and Jim will get baptized when he gives up smoking. We just gave him some cinnamon flavored toothpicks which are supposed to help somehow. We'll see. I have pretty high hopes for him :) But yeah, that was definitely the highlight of the week.
 
To answer your questions, I am still with Elder Wright. Elder McLaws just got moved. I never remember Ruby bringing flan at Christmas time so now I am really bummed that I missed it. That stuff is so dang good.
 
We had the All Mission Conference on Friday. Elder Clark from the Seventy came and spoke to us. no we did not get "devices" but supposedly we will get them this Friday. I'm thinking it'll actually be another year or so. Elder Clark was a dang good speaker. The best speaker I've heard since I've been on my mission. We had no breaks so it was 5.5 hours of sitting in one spot. Here's the breakdown. 1 hour of device training, half hour of rebuking, 4 hours of marriage and dating advice. And that's pretty much it. My favorite tip was to bring my perspective wife on a hike of Mt Timpanogas. "If she complains, dump her, no one needs a complainer". Then he told us "I really quite like your mission president. He happens to have less hair than I do". Hahaha the guy was hilarious.
 
This coming week we will be having a Hawaiian Luau as a Branch Missionary Activity. We are going to roast two whole hogs in the ground and have Polynesian dancers there. We are planning on 350-400 people in attendance. I'm pretty excited :) I suggested that the dancers should teach the entire group the Haka and have everyone perform it at the same time. Can you imagine 400 people doing the Haka? I think we would scare the rest of Trenton away.
 
Well this week I'm going to give you an excerpt from the talk I gave on Sunday about missionary work and then I'll send you the whole talk.---As quoted by Elder Holland “There is no battle more crucial and evident “than that being waged for the minds and morals, the personal purity of the young.” Satan knows that the youth are the future of this Church, that they are our future Bishops, Teachers, Quorum and Class Presidents, that they are our Future Missionaries. But in order for us to win this battle for the purity of Youth we must follow the instructions stated in Mosiah 18:9 to “stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that [we] may be in”. By doing so, we support and encourage the youth of our generation to prepare to serve as member and full-time missionaries; We help those who will come after us to flood the Earth with The Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ and the wonderful blessings that it has to offer us.---
 
There you go. Now hopefully you will just read my whole talk. Don't worry I didn't just look down and read the whole thing :) I'll send it in a different e-mail though because this church computer doesnt have MS word.... Well I'll try to just send the file, I don't think you'll be able to open it though...
 
Well I think that's about it for the week. Looking forward to next week. Love Ya!
 
    -Elder Nyholm
 

 

Monday, June 1, 2015

Sent: Tuesday, May 26, 2015 8:49 AM
Subject: Well Shoot
 
I forgot to write down in my planner everything that happened this week. So now I don't remember it all. Bummer. But I remember some of the important stuff so I guess I'll still have a bit to write about.
 
Yesterday we had an awesome Memorial Day Breakfast on Adam-Ondi-Ahman. One of the families in our ward, The Hagans, brought hard-boiled quail eggs. Well, they told me that they were super good and that you could eat them even with the shell on and then finally convinced me to eat one, even though no one else did. So I ate it, shell and all, (and it was actually pretty good) and then they told me that neither of them had tried a single one, not even a peeled one. So yeah, new adventurous food choice of the week. I recommend them.
 
A few days ago we ate dinner with the Lichfields in Gallatin. They have a pretty big property and we were down there at night and all the fireflies came out. There were thousands of them, way more than I've ever seen before. It looked like there were fireworks going off on the ground because there were so many. Also, if you hit a firefly on the highway and it splatters on your windshield it actually glows on your windshield for 30 seconds or so. Pretty cool huh?
 
Last night we were driving home from Ridgeway, 47 miles away from Trenton, and a huge storm was coming in. It was following us the whole way home, lighting and all. We didn't get rained on at all and then last night it dumped out about an inch of rain. I'm pretty surprised that we didn't have any tornado warnings or anything last night. I though for sure we would have them with the big temperature change and the huge storm front coming in.
 
This Saturday we will have a baptism for Donna and Sam. They live in Jamesport and we've been teaching them for about 2 weeks now. They are a super awesome family and they remember and apply everything we teach them almost immediately. It's just an sweet experience to see a family progressing so quickly. We are still working with Jim and Jason to help them stop smoking so that they can be baptized as well. Today we will teach them their last lesson and tomorrow they will be interviewed for baptism :) Also, they fed a us dinner the other day and it was chicken that they fried in butter. That's some good stuff :)
 
Today I'm taking off to Gallatin for exchanges. Elder Edginton set up an appointment with a Spanish family there (The Manzano Family) So we are going to cook some Mexican food with them and I will have an opportunity to practice my Spanish. So I'm really looking forward to that. And Sister Manzano is going to make us a Flan, which is one of my favorite desserts of all time. Good stuff to look forward to.
 
I was reading in Mosiah 5 and some parts of verses 7 and 8 stuck out to me. They say "this day [Christ] hath spiritually begotten you; for ye say that your hearts are changed through faith on his name... There is no other name given whereby salvation cometh; therefore, I would that ye should take upon you the name of Christ, all you that have entered into the covenant with God that ye should be obedient unto the end of your lives." I really like these verses because they show that when we have true faith in our Savior Jesus Christ that we will be obedient to the commandments that he has given us. A mighty change of heart will come to those who are obedient to the commandments of the Lord and we will be named as Christ. We will be the Christ-like example that those around us need in order to have the strength to make it through their own trials and struggles. We can be the light that others need in their lives, to give them hope and confidence in order to "endure hardness as a good soldier of Jesus Christ".
 
Well that's all that I can remember for the week. I Love You! Make it a great week!
 
       -Elder Nyholm
 
Pictures: The storm that we outran. Elder McLaws got transferred :( And Elder Edginton (The one in the truck with me) is the one who teaches me how to cook


 

Sunday, May 31, 2015

Sent: Monday, May 18, 2015 7:09 AM
Well I'm not really sure where the week went... I don't even remember hardly a single thing we did this week. Last P-Day we did make some pretty sweet hunting knives with Angus Wright out of some railroad spikes. That was a pretty great time. Oh and we taught FHE at President Bartlett's home and it was super fun and went really well. We taught about Prophets and played a little game with them and their 5 kids. 
 
This week we were able to contact a less-active Spanish guy in our ward. He just got back from his mission like 3 years ago. Now he is going to come with us to go teach one of our investigators (also a Spanish guy) this week so I am super excited for that. Hopefully our less-active ward member will feel the spirit so strong that he starts coming back to church. That would really be a huge miracle and I'm praying my heart out for it. 
 
We've been having a pretty tough time finding new investigators lately. We've been asking for referrals and street contacting and contacted less-active and part-member families and we just aren't getting anything. But sometime along the way all our hard work will pay off. We have quite a few potential investigators who just aren't quite to the point of being taught yet.
 
There is a family in Jamesport that came in contact with the missionaries in Gallatin. The family even went to church in Gallatin with those missionaries. The problem is that they live in our area so now we have to try to get them to develop friendships with the members over here and come to church here in Trenton which is almost 20 miles further away from them than the Gallatin building is. Sometimes ward boundaries are just really annoying. But anyways, we will be working with them starting this week so I am looking forward to that.
 
 While I've been out in the boondocks I've been able to see a lot of super pretty country. It's been making me think of a scripture in Alma 30:44 which says "...all things denote there is a God; yea, even the earth, and all things that are upon the face of it..." I know that our Heavenly Father created this world for us as a place for us to grow and to learn and gain experience and as a place for us to develop eternal family relationships. Everything around us is truly a testament that our God loves us. He has blessed us with so many beautiful things in our lives all for the sole purpose of providing us with joy and happiness.
 
Well that's it for the week folks. Make it a great week! I love you!
 
       -Elder Nyholm
 
P.S. Transfers are on Thursday so next week you get some news :)
 
 

Monday, May 11, 2015


Sent: Monday, May 11, 2015 6:58 AM
 
Well there's not much to talk about today because I already talked to you yesterday. This week we just did lots of service and stuff so that was pretty fun. Today for P-Day we are going to the Wright's in Cainsville to make knives out of railroad spikes so we should have quite a bit of fun.
 
If you don't like the weather, just wait a minute. When I got on the phone with you yesterday it was pouring rain. It was raining so hard that I almost had to stop on the highway because I couldn't see in front of me even with the windshield wipers going as fast as they go. Not to mention the lightning that was hitting right close to us. Well, by the time I walked outside after talking to you, everything was dry, blue skies and white clouds, and probably about 70 degrees. Honestly, just wait a minute, the weather will change.
 
We found 2 solid new investigators this week. We were getting in the truck and we saw a guy across this big field. Usually if we walk up to someone and they see us coming then they just yell at us to go away. With that in mind...
"Hey Elder Wright, do you want to go talk to that guy?"
"Well not really, he'll see us coming"
"Yeah, then he'll yell at us and it will just be a waste of time"
"And it's getting dark so he won't want us to be walking up on him"
*Thinking for a minute*
"Well lets just go talk to him. Worst that can happen is he'll tell us to go away"
So we went and talked to him and he was actually super nice. Turns out that his Dad was a Branch President in a town about 40 miles away and this guy really likes the church even though he grew up Catholic. So now we are teaching him. The miracles that come from Talking to Everybody, even when you really don't want to.
 
During the week I read two scriptures that I really liked. The first, Hebrews 12:11 says "Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby." I was thinking about how the Lord often chastises us, either through trials that he allows to be placed in our path, or through the words of those around us such as our parents. Each one of us has times in our lives when we feel we have been chastised and I know that often times those are the times when we have made a decision to become better and improve our character. In addition, in D&C 95:1 the Lord says "whom I love I also chasten that their sins may be forgiven, for with the chastisement I prepare a way for their deliverance in all things out of temptation, and I have loved you". I know that our Heavenly Father loves us and as a result is willing to chastise us to help us to change in order to keep us safe from temptation and trial.
 
Well that's it for the week. I Love You! Make it a great week!
 
    -Elder Nyholm
 
These are pictures of my $1.25 suit, a plant with purple flowers that is supposedly a weed (Prettiest weed I've ever seen), and my fried chicken that I didn't burn :)
 

 
 

Friday, May 8, 2015


Sent: Monday, May 4, 2015 6:38 AM
 
Well I'm not quite sure where the week went. It just kind of flew by and now I'm sitting at this computer again writing another e-mail. It kind of feels like I was just sitting here a day or two ago. But here goes :)
 
This week our District Leader (Elder Edginton) taught me how to make BBQ pork tenderloin and fried chicken. So now I can hard boil eggs, scramble eggs, make BBQ pork, baked chicken and fried chicken. I'm really moving up in the world of cooking huh? The only problem is that I "Know" how to do it but I'm not sure if I "Can" do it. Hopefully I'll have a few practice runs this week.
 
Our dinners with Part-member families and investigators went super great. It's not really super usual to have dinner with families that aren't members but I have no shame asking people to feed us so it's kind of normal for me haha. Yesterday we didn't have a dinner appointment so I called one of the families in the ward. The husband picked up and I asked him if we could eat dinner with them. He told his wife that "the missionaries want to eat with us". She picked up the phone and said "Elder Nyholm, you are the only missionary who would ever call for a meal if you didn't have an appointment". I just thought it was funny that she knew it was me rather than Elder Wright before she even picked up the phone hahaha. But man, Sister Bailey does a darn good job cooking :)
 
This week I went on exchanges in Gallatin again. This time I was with Elder McLaws. We had a good impromptu planning session and a few good visits. We had to go pick up our dinner from the family that lives by a huge lake up near Gallatin somewhere. It was a way pretty drive getting to their house. You can actually enjoy your surrounding in the boons I guess.
 
There is a thrift store here that has the cheapest prices I've ever seen in a thrift store. Elder Wright got a really nice suit for $1.25 but it didn't fit him so he gave it to me as an early Birthday present. So now I have a sweet khaki? colored suit. Sister Bailey is letting down the hem for me and then I'll be able to wear it. Not bad for $1.25 :)
 
The Branch put on a Spring Concert this Saturday. The highschool choir was there along with the "Merry Messengers" (a group of four 70+ year old people, they were my favorite by far) and also the Ritchie Family from my ward in Shoal Creek Valley. There was a super good turn out. The chapel was full (granted it is a small chapel because it's a branch building) and the majority of people there were not members of the church so it was a huge success. Next month we are putting on a Polynesian Luau. We're going to roast a pig in the ground and have dancers and all that good stuff so we are hoping to have even more people at the building next month.
 
We also had a pretty good chat with Tobie Ropp this week. He's an Amish guy who owns a store in Jamesport and I wanted to know more about the Amish. Well I've found that if you ask someone who isn't Amish about the Amish you just get a bunch of information that isn't true, so we went in and I picked Tobie's brain about what the Amish believe and why they live the way they do and stuff like that. So now I know quite a bit more about the Amish. I even got him to listen a little bit about the Mormons which I've heard is pretty much impossible with the Amish so it was a good little missionary experience also :)
 
Next week is Mother's Day. Yes I will be calling. I don't know what time yet though. If Elder Wright's parents have church at the same time as you then I will probably call about 1 but I'm really not sure. I will probably call in the morning just to give you a better estimate. But we'll see. It's all subject to change.
 
I've been reading lots conference talks lately (in Spanish to try and keep up on that) from Neil A Maxwell. There are two that I read  titled "Swallowed Up In The Will Of The Father" and "According To The Desire Of Our Hearts". One quote that really stuck out to me was that "To be a man is to desire...what we insistently desire, over time, is what we will eventually become and what we will receive in eternity". We will eventually become that which we desire, so it so incredibly important to desire the will of our Heavenly Father just as Jesus Christ was "led, crucified, and slain, the flesh becoming subject even unto death, the will of the Son being swallowed up in the will of the Father" (Mosiah 15:7). If we seek to be like God and to accept and do his will, then in time we will learn and begin to do exactly what he requires of us in order to walk back into his presence. That doesn't mean the road will be easy. "Discipleship is a 'contact sport'". But as we go through the challenges that lay ahead of us with continued faith in Jesus Christ, God will shape us into what he wants us to become.
 
That's all I've got for the week. Talk to you soon. Love You! Make it a great week!
 
    -Elder Nyholm

Sent: Monday, April 27, 2015 7:35 AM
 
This week we had quite a few cool experiences happen. Nothing huge investigator-wise, just a lot of cool stuff. I actually wrote the cool things we did each day in my planner so now I remember them all :) I'm getting wiser I guess. Ok you're right, probably not.
 
So Monday. We went to a member's home in Gallatin (Adam-ondi-ahman is in that ward). They had a giant adult size spinning see-saw, a trampoline, some disc golf baskets and some trees we used to slackline across. I fell off the top of the see-saw about 3 times which was kinda scary but I didn't get hurt at all so it's all good :) I actually probably got about a foot off the seat without falling off a few times. I guess I'm even luckier that I didn't fall off more than 3 times. I also taught myself how to do backflips finally. I've always been able to do front flips but I've always been scared of breaking my neck doing backflips. Well I guess missionaries are protected (to some extent, if we aren't doing anything stupid) so I didn't break my neck and now I can do backflips. That was my big accomplishment for Monday haha.
 
Tuesday we got to go to the Country Cupboard again. Their food gets better every time we go there. We also got taken out to China 1 buffet again and then we were given a gift card to go there again by a member about 5 minutes after we left the buffet. I love chinese buffet and really can't wait to go back again :)
 
Wednesday. I finally got my new bed!!!!! I don't know if I told you, but for 3 weeks I was sleeping on this terrible mattress that felt like I was sleeping on rocks. But now I have a nice soft brand spanking new mattress so I can finally sleep again. Wednesday we also visited a family that lives on a sweet farm right outside of Trenton. It's way pretty out there. Super green, lots of wildlife, deer come eat the food off their picnic table if they aren't watching it close. They have a pond on the property (like everyone else in MO) that have some good size fish in it. It's a sweet place to live.
 
Friday we had a zone service project at the Far West Historical site. We just moved a bunch of telephone poles and wooden platforms, picnic tables and benches, and made a little walkway. It was super fun though and they fed us lunch so that was nice. We were lucky with the weather too because it started pouring a few hours after we left. I guess when it rains that whole place just gets way flooded.
 
On Saturday we had a baptism for Pat Hendrix, a 80-something year old lady that the senior missionaries in our branch were teaching. She was way excited to get baptized and had an awesome experience. The Seniors found her in Brimson (that little town of 63 people) by seeing her ruined porch steps. They asked some people to come out and fix the steps and some priesthood men from the branch went out and took care of it and Pat was super excited and loved the service aspect of the church and wanted to be a part of the branch family. The Seniors asked her to pray about whether the church was true or not and she pointed to her heart and said "I don't have to pray about it. I already know that it's true. I can feel it right here". SO that was the super extra special event this week.
 
Our stake has 15 units in it. Yesterday we had an OUTDOOR stake conference so that the whole stake could be together in one place. It was super cold until about and hour afterwards. I got a good video of the stake president making everyone do jumping jacks during the conference to warm up and stay awake. You don't see that every day haha. But it was a way cool conference and I got to see all the members I worked with while I was in the Shoal Creek Valley Ward :)
 
This week we have 3 dinner appointments set up for non-member or part-member families. We are way excited for those. Everyone is always a little more open to the spirit after a good meal :) It's kind of the same as "The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach".
 
I read a talk from Jeffrey R Holland this last week titled "Cast Not Away Therefore your Confidence" (It's an awesome talk. Read it). He quotes parts of Hebrews 10, which says "After ye were illuminated, ye endured a great fight of afflictions... Cast not away therefore your confidence... For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise... If any man draw back, my soul shall have no pleasure in him... We are not of them who draw back unto Perdition". We each have challenges that we have overcome and challenges that we have yet to overcome in our lives. But we also have a promise, a promise that if we follow the Gospel of Jesus Christ that God will "make weak things become strong unto [us]". As Jeffrey R Holland says "Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don't come until Heaven; but for those who embrace the Gospel of Jesus Christ, they come". It is so important that each one of us continues in the path that we have entered, that we do not "draw back unto Perdition". I know that our Heavenly Father loves us and that as we obey his commandments and follow his Gospel that we will obtain the blessings that he has promised us, even unto eternal life.
 
Well that's about it for the week. I hope you all make it a great week. I love you!
 
    -Elder Nyholm
 


 

Sent: Monday, April 20, 2015 8:03 AM
 
This week didn't go quite as well as last week but it still went pretty darn good. We are working really hard on finding new investigators as our teaching pool is quite small. It's hard because we are in such a small town and every other town is 15+ miles away. It's 47.7 miles to one of the towns in the area and we only have 50ish miles to use each day. It makes it pretty rough to work with the members of the ward as well because less than half of them live within a distance that we can actually drive and still stay within our mileage limitations. But it's all good. We make the best of it.
 
Adam-Ondi-Ahman was pretty dang awesome. Super spiritual experience to go there. We had a guy from our ward go with us that knows a lot about the place. We saw the valley overlook, a old burial plot from the native americans, preachers rock, Lyman Wight's cabin foundation, etc. Preachers rock is sweet because someone can talk in a normal voice from there and you can hear them from a 100+ yards away just fine. We are planning on going there again sometime to eat dinner/lunch there are have him show us around some more. We didn't have a lot of time to look around because we were with 16 other missionaries haha.
 
We had a super fun service project this week. There is a family in our ward that needed a transmission replaced on their car. We were able to remove the transmission from the parts car and from the car that needed the replacement and we were about halfway to replacing the transmission when we found out that the motor mount was broken. It's a dang good thing we put a chain on the motor or we would've been squashed haha. But yeah, it was a fun project and we learned a lot about working on cars and stuff and were also able to meet a few people that we are going to try to teach in the future.
 
We had the most spiritual lesson I've ever had this week with Jon Siebenborne (Or Slobbinbean as he calls himself). We watched the ancient 2002 movie "Between Heaven and Earth" with him that talks about the purpose of temples and then just had a super great discussion with him and Bro Jacobsen. You could've cut the spirit with a knife because it was so thick in the room. Awesome experience.
 
We also had  Zone Training this week. I like those because we get to see a lot of other missionaries. I'm not a big fan of all the trainings because it takes so much time out of visiting the people in our area, especially when we have to drive an hour to get to the training. It wasn't so bad in Independence when it only took 3 hours because all we had to do was walk across the street to the church building. When we are in Trenton those Trainings take a good 6 hours out of our day. It's a huge bummer.
 
We ate breakfast at this little restaurant in Trenton called " The Country Cupboard". It's way cheap and delicious food. It's packed for breakfast. We couldn't even find a place to park to get into the place. Luckily we had a member feeding us and she got there early so we didn't have to wait 30 mins to sit down and eat. But dang, that food was good. Definitely a place to stop and eat if you ever drive through.
 
At church this week our Branch President told us a story about a town that had a giant statue of Christ that was partially destroyed in a war. Although the majority of the town was destroyed and many people had no homes to sleep in, the statue of Christ was the first thing that they repaired. The only part of the statue they were not able to find were the hands. In current day, there is a plaque below the statue that says "Christ has no hands but ours". I thought that was super inspiring because Christ truly reaches out to people through us. As D&C says “remember in all things the poor and the needy, the sick and the afflicted, for he that doeth not these things, the same is not my disciple”. When we reach out to those in need we act in place of our Savior and help his work to progress. I know that to be true because I have seen in so many times during the course of my life.
 
Cooking lunch this week. Hahaha... we were fed 6 of our 7 lunches. I only had to cook once woohoo. And when I did, I definitely overcooked the chicken. I made some good BBQ sauce though so I just covered the chicken with that and it tasted great. I don't think I will be so lucky this week :/
 
Well here are some pictures. Make it a great week. Love You!
 
     -Elder Nyholm
 
Picures. Savage Grandma mowing her lawn. Working on the transmission. Elder Monroe (my old companion) and I close to preachers rock in AOA
 


 

Tuesday, April 28, 2015


Sent: Monday, April 13, 2015 7:24 AM
Subject: Good News!!!
 
So I'll tell you the best news first. I just found out that on March 14th Dalton Burns (who I was working with in St Joseph) was baptized! We had put him on baptismal date but he didn't quite make it but now he's set to go. I'm so dang excited for Dalton :) Also, while in St Joseph we baptized Kaleb Christman. Well Kaleb was ordained to be a Priest on Saturday and was able to baptize his Mom on Sunday so I am suuuuuuuper excited for them. Good news all over the place this week. It's nice to get that awesome news every once in a while :)
 
This week I went on exchanges in Gallatin with Elder Edginton. We had a super good time and stayed busy. While in one appointment the son of the family drank a raw egg in preparation to work out, which I thought was way nasty. Anyways, they eventually convinced me to try it soooooo, yeah that was pretty gross but not as bad as I thought it would be. I got a video so hopefully I can include that in this e-mail ;) Oh, and Elder Edginton is waaaay good at cooking and inspired me to learn. So I'm going to try it this week. I think I might starve because I'll burn everything but it's worth a shot right?
 
I got the Easter Package. Thank's for the snacks and the letter :)
 
This week we went to a member's home in Brimson MO. She is having problems with "demons". I guess that's what happens when you come to the sticks. Anyways, the Senior Sister Missionaries (S. Killpack and S. Stone) were teaching her a lesson after our talk about demons so Elder Wright and I tracted out the whole town. The Whole Thing! In about 30 minutes... Yeah there are only 63 people in Brimson and I think that the dogs might have been counted into that as well...
 
We had a Zone Conference this week. It was a special one. They gave us gifts. The Tiwi's aka "black boxes". They have GPS tracking in them and send out alerts when you are not wearing your seat belt, speeding, driving aggressively, etc. Anyways, now we have this little nifty box in the truck to make sure we aren't driving bad. The good news is that I haven't had to change my driving since we got it so I think I've been doing pretty good this whole time. Now you can feel like I'm being safe Mom :)
 
Food. We got to go eat at China 1 Buffet this week. It was everything that I dreamed it would be. I look forward to eating there as often as occasion permits. I love chinese buffet. I learned that you pound down all the Chicken and Shrimp you can, then you fill up the empty space with canned peaches, and then the cracks with ice cream. You can get a lot of food down that way and really make sure you get a good deal on the buffet :) If only that would help me gain some weight....
 
Today we are going to Adam-Ondi-Ahman as a zone. It should be pretty sweet especially since B. Lichfield (who knows a lot of the history about the area) is going to walk us around and tell us all the cool stuff about it. So we are pretty excited to do that. Did you know that Adam-Ondi-Ahman is it's own mission and that Pres Monson is the Mission President. Way cool right?
 
I learned last week from General Conference that a testimony isn't for the weak or the quitters. It's hard to develop and keep a testimony. It's meant to be that way. Your testimony will be constantly tried and tested, otherwise it would never be able to grow stronger. I think of Abinadi, who knew the consequences of defending his testimony, who after he had borne his testimony to the wicked King Noah "he fell, having suffered death by fire; yea, having been put to death because he would not deny the commandments of God, having sealed the truth of his words by his death" (Mosiah 17:20). I doubt that as we stand up for our testimony that our lives will ever be put in danger, but I know that there will be those who oppose what we believe and it will be our duty to stand up for our beliefs and to stand as a witness and bear testimony of that which we "have seen and heard and most assuredly believe" (Joseph B Wirthlin). There will be times when we stand alone, are tempted and tried, but I know that as we center our testimonies on Christ that our testimony will become unshakable. "May we ever be courageous and prepared to stand for what we believe,and if we must stand alone in the process, may we do so courageously, strengthened by the knowledge that in reality we are never alone when we stand with our Father in Heaven" (Thomas S Monson).
 
Well I think that is all the news for the week. Make It a Great Week! I love you!
 
    -Elder Nyholm
 
 

Sent: Monday, April 6, 2015 8:24 AM
Subject: Banished
 
Update on how I'm feeling. Great. Except every morning and night a sore throat comes back. It's weird because it's gone during the day. Maybe I snore now that I gained weight? Who knows.
 
About staying in Belton with Elder Young, yeah no that isn't the case. I got moved to Trenton MO (about 10 miles from the Amish town of Jamesport) to serve with Elder Wright. It is 100% Boonies. 6000 people in town, no Walmart, it's a branch, and there are signs on the side of the highway that tell you to share the road with horses and buggies.... Yeah I'm in the sticks. The members are sweet here though and there is a lot of work to be done so I'm excited to be here. Elder Wright is a awesome guy. He's from Highland UT, goes home in 3 months, had a massive stroke when he was 16 for no good reason so he can't use the right side of his body super well. But we are excited to be serving together here in Trenton. Oh and we get to drive a truck here. It's pretty nice :)
 
No I didn't get the Easter envelope yet. It probably got delayed because of Easter. I'm sure I'll get it soon. Remember to send the cookies through Priority Mail or else they will sit in the Mission Office for a few weeks before they get to me way out here in Trenton. And thank you for be willing to send me some cookies and a letter :)
 
With Easter just passing I thought of Ether 12:11 (which I know I've shared before) which says "But in the gift of His Son hath God prepared a more excellent way". I think each one of us could spend a little more time each and every day thinking of the wonderful gift that Jesus Christ is to each of us and how through him we have the opportunity to return to live with our Heavenly Father. I know that as we do this that our relationship with God and Jesus Christ will grow stronger and that our understanding of the Atonement will grow. By the way, if you haven't seen it already (but I'm sure you have) look up becausehelives and watch it. Or go to helives.mormon.org and you can find it there.
 
Jamesport, the Amish town, is in our Branch boundary so hopefully I'll get some good pictures there to show you. I hope you all have a great week. I Love You!
 
     -Elder Nyholm